CONTEXTUAL REFRAMES #1

Context def. the parts of a written or spoken statement that precede or follow a specific word or passage, usually influencing its meaning or effect:

Frame def. a border or case for enclosing a picture, mirror, etc.

(source: www.dictionary.com)

With these definitions in mind, let’s consider the first photo in the gallery below.

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The experience of this content varies when we “reframe” , as demonstrated by photo #2.

The photo is the content.  The frame is the context.

Inspecting the photo, I note two types of containers. A disposable, plastic party cup & a wine glass. Both are examples of context.  Enjoying a drink (content) from these containers (context) provides varied experiences.

Contextual reframes.

A different way to think about/look at things?

Check out a few examples in this 1min 21sec video…

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What could happen to my “game” if I reframed some contexts?

 

What works for you? Comment below & tweet.

(If I use your example in the upcoming video, I will include your twitter name)

F-E-A-R

 

Seth Godin blogged “People take action (mostly) based on one of three emotions: Fear, Hope,Love”

Fear immobilises.  Taking no perceived action is still an action.

It is still a decision to not make a decision.

Many people have defined fear as an acronym

F alse

E vidence

A ppearing

R eal

“Evidence” may have been gathered for some time, even decades.  This compilation reinforces the “story” and helps create a disempowering stronghold.

This manifests on the surface level.  The fear goes much deeper.

Three things have helped me “feel the fear but do it anyway”

 

  1. Being aware of my self talk regarding this topic. 

 

  1. Focussed questions & actions.  Questions that challenge the validity of the “evidence” and bring clarity.  Empowering actions that answer the questions.

 

  1. Community.  People who encourage & challenge.

 

In the past two days, I have challenged fears around relationships and also a past event.  This was limiting initiative around future endeavours.  The outcomes have been rewarding for others & myself.  I look forward to the future.

What may happen if I knock the casing off the ball?

I may knock it out of the park!

NEW YEAR'S REVOLUTION : EVALUATE

 

Resource def. a source of supply, support, or aid, esp. one that can be readily drawn upon when needed. (source: Dictionary.com)

Today I am reflecting on my stewardship of three particular resources – Health, Time & Money, and how they have dovetailed into my New Years ReVolution

Howard Hendricks states “Experience doesn’t make you better. Only EVALUATED experience makes you better” (emphasis mine)

We are nearing the end of the first calendar month of 2010.  If we got the jump before the year started, it may be that we have clocked up a month already.

Here are some of my reflections on month 1

Health

Since Dec 28th 2009, I have lost just short of 6 kilos / just over 13 pounds.  I have experienced lots of food & enjoyed a variety of tasty dishes.  I have also included regular walks after eating lunch (this is the extent of my exercise routine).  I have felt energised and this has cultivated alertness & creativity.

What works for you in the area of HEALTH?

Time

One example of a tweak here is with my blog subscriptions.  I cancelled the majority of my subscriptions at the start of the year.  This has equated to less time reading blogs & a deliberate focus on topic that relates to this year’s projects.  The extra time “created” becomes available for other valued areas of my life, and the reading keeps the particular subject matter on radar.

More & more offline activities are feeding the need to be entertained, experience adventure or variety, as the blog feed drips small, yet regular concentrated posts on my chosen theme.  The result? Further away from overwhelm. 

What works for you in the area of TIME?

Money

Our family revisited the budget, as we do regularly throughout the entire year, with the understanding that it is a “living” document.

We set some goals for a revolutionary 2010 financially.  We aim to give more, save more & spend more this year.  The budget is synced to a big WHY.

A few days ago, we achieved a milestone that we had set several years ago.  This was a major milestone in our experiences. A first!  This brings momentum for the other goals for the year ahead.

What works for you in the area of MONEY?

Taking stock of my health, time & money is proving to be a fruitful exercise. (there’s that word again!) 

How does your New Year’s Revolution look for you? 

What does it feel like?

Please comment.  I would love to hear your story.

Filed under  //   Money   New Year's ReVolution   diet   evaluate   momentum  

NEW YEARS REVOLUTION: ELIMINATE?

"The secret of concentration is elimination" - Dr Howard Hendricks

Decide (Latin: to cut off from)

This year my "to NOT do" list may be just as important as my "to do" list.

This will require daily decisions on my part.

Specifics. Focused. Selective.

Filed under  //   New Year's ReVolution   decisions  

NEW YEARS REVOLUTION: PROVEN RESULTS

 

One way to get the JUMP on a New Year’s Revolution is to start BEFORE the new calendar gets on the wall.

It feels so good when I get some quick wins!

Great encouragement.

Momentum builder.

This is exactly what has happened as I revisit one of the common New Year goals –

Dropping pounds/kilos

Another couple, my bride & I decided a few weeks ago to run this journey together, and build intentional accountability in this community. 

(Check the accountability tagged posts for more)

My bride & I have already seen positive impact and this is spurring us on.

How did we KNOW what to DO?

Where does our counsel come from?

Approximately 5 years ago I commenced a similar journey but had a longer road to travel as I was obese.

I obliterated obesity through consistent, daily dietary discipline.

I ate plenty of food – healthy & tasty food.

We had the food data & information still documented so we revisited this.

It had PROVEN RESULTS and it is working again!

This sometimes get heat but consider this –

 

  • would you take diet advice from an obese person?
  • would you take personal finance advice from a broke person?

 

I certainly wouldn’t take gardening or singing advice from me.  I’m sure you get the picture! (

There is still time in 2009 to get a HEAD START on your 2010 New Years Revolution.

What is the one thing that you could do to get that edge?

Maybe you can have a chat with somebody who has PROVEN RESULTS in what you want to achieve?

 

Happy New Year! .....more to come....

Filed under  //   Accountability   New Year's ReVolution   counsel   diet   momentum   proven results  

NEW YEAR'S REVOLUTION

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results” – often credited to Albert Einstein

 

What a difference changing one letter makes?

 

We are fast approaching January 1st when many across the planet will make New Year’s resolutions relating to health, finance, family, spirituality & more.

 

Some go through the motions year after year, dropping out unmotivated and frustrated.  Many perceive that they have not achieved their New Year’s resolution.

 

I suggest that they may have.

 

ReSolution is not the act. It is making a decision.  Many make a personal decision.

 

ReVolution is radical change.

 

Future posts will be written with the intention of adding value to your New Year’s ReVolution activities.

 

I also welcome comments so we can encourage one another on the journey ahead.  My pen is at the ready to learn from your quests too.

 

What radical change are you focussing on for 2010?

Filed under  //   New Year's ReVolution  

HE WAS BROKE AND NOW HE IS NOT!

 

Jason had an amazing opportunity to interview Joseph Sangl, blogger & author of “I Was Broke And Now I’m Not” and “What Everyone Should Know About Money Before They Enter THE REAL WORLD”.


Check it out as they unpack one accountability tool

that may save you $$$$ !!!!


JASON: Budget sounds like hard work or something to outsource. What exactly is it?

 

JOSEPH: A budget is nothing more than preparing a written plan for each dollar you will be paid during a set period of time.  BEFORE the month begins and BEFORE the money is paid to you, I recommend that a written plan be prepared that details where each of those dollars will be spent.  This process of preparing a plan in advance allows a person to have choices and will allow the money to be used to its maximum potential.  In fact, I think it is EZ to budget.  INCOME - OUTGO = EXACTLY ZERO.  Exactly Zero is EZ!

 

JASON: What's the best way to launch into budgeting for the first time (or the first time in a long time)?

 

 JOSEPH: Pull up one of the free budget tools from JosephSangl.com - click on "TOOLS" (HERE).  Start just before a month begins.  Enter all of the income that you expect to receive during that month.  Now spend all of that money on the known expenses.  Make sure that the budget includes giving, saving, and spending.  When just starting out, it might be helpful to have a "We forgot" line in the budget with some money allocated because you will forget something!


If married, I recommend that the budget be prepared TOGETHER.

 

JASON: How much financial / math/ computer experience do we need to budget?

 

JOSEPH: Luckily, a budget does not require calculus, trigonometry, or even basic algebra!  It is 1st-grade math - addition and subtraction.  A piece of paper and a calculator will work.  If you have basic computer skills, use one of the free budgets from the website to do the math for you!

 

JASON:  What are 3 things that someone should know in order to maximise their time invested into budgeting?

 

JOSEPH:  (1) planned money goes farther than unplanned money,

 

(2) use rough estimates for items like electricity or gasoline (petrol) - it does not have to be planned to the penny (cent), and

 

(3) If married, both must buy into the plan.  If one spouse is not willing to follow the plan, this can quickly become a worthless exercise.

 

JASON: How long does it take to really get a budget up & running?

 

JOSEPH: Generally, it usually takes two or three months.  If it is a really terrible financial situation where financial restructuring of loans/selling of vehicles/selling a house is required, it can take five or six months.

 

JASON: Will your methods or advice work for any income or debt level?

 

JOSEPH: AB-SO-LUTE-LY - with one single exception:  This stuff will not work if there is zero income.  The basic fact remains true - to have outgo, there must be income!

 

JASON: What are some of the obstacles that people may face no, let’s reframe that – what are some of the opportunities that people may come across when budgeting?

 

JOSEPH: Obstacles faced could include facing reality for the first time.  Recognizing just how much a car or a house is destroying the finances is very tough to face.  Most people discover just how much they are spending on "impulsive" categories like groceries, dining out, clothing, shopping, entertainment, and general spending money.  It also helps them understand just how much money they are spending on insurance and other routine expenses that we tend to keep "out of sight - out of mind".

 

JASON:  Seth Godin recently published a blog called “Watch The Money”.  It included the thought “Money is more than a transfer of value. It's a statement of belief. “   Does a budget make a statement about our belief? If so, what type of statements have you been exposed to in your quest to help people with their personal finances?

 

JOSEPH:  I agree with Seth.  It is common knowledge that you can tell what is important to someone simply by checking out their calendar and their bank account.  We will invest money in the things we treasure, cherish, or believe in.  I have seen statements of "I can't ever have enough" where there are millions of dollars saved up and none being given away or spent.  Most commonly, I see statements of "I deserve this - I don't care what it costs or if I can repay."  This statement leads to immense grief and sorrow.

 

JASON:  What sort of things can someone do for momentum & consistency?

 

JOSEPH:  Obtain new quotes on insurance.  Use cash envelopes for groceries.  Use coupons.  Sell some junk that you no longer need.  These activities free up margin in the budget which gives considerable momentum and consistency.  Save money!  There is NOTHING like an emergency fund of money to help one stay the course toward financial freedom - even when negative financial events occur.

 

JASON:  What other resources would help people on this journey?

 

JOSEPH:  Budget boosters section of our Next Steps website (HERE).

 

My book, I Was Broke. Now I'm Not. and its related six-week Group Study. My new book for high schoolers, college students, and 20-somethings, What Everyone Should Know About Money Before They Enter THE REAL WORLD.  Dave Ramsey's book, Financial Peace Revisited.  CNN's Personal Finance website.  Yahoo's Personal Finance website.

 

JASON:  How can people connect with you?

 

JOSEPH:  People can contact me or ask financial questions via the "Email Joe" link at JosephSangl.com

Filed under  //   Accountability   Interview   Money  

PUTTING MY PROJECT IN A TANK

A shark will grow to the size of the tank it is in?

 

A project will grow to the size of the timeframe allocated?

 

Have I even set a deadline?

 

C. Northcote Parkinson statesWork expands so as to fill the time available for its completion.”


(source: http://www.economist.com/businessfinance/management/displaystory.cfm?story_id=14116121)

 

This is so true.

 

The first time that I attempted to write a manuscript, I did not have a well-defined timeframe allotted.  For me, this was dangerous.  The manuscript journey became monumental as it expanded over several years!!!

 

Thankfully, I have learned from that experience.

 

Do you have clear, defined, written down deadlines?

 

I am curious.  What works for you?

 

Filed under  //   Accountability   Productivity  

DEAR ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNERS (and a reminder to self)

Someone has given us permission to call them out on something related to a goal they highly value and have in their sights.

 

Are we calling them on it?

 

Permission was given. 

 

We agreed to step up.

 

If we don’t, are we keeping them accountable or just hanging out when we “touch base”?

 

The power play kicks in when we speak up about “the greens stuck between the teeth” or “the fly being undone”. 

 

We have been welcomed into sometimes touchy and private areas.

 

We have been given access.

 

It is time to call them on that extra biscuit (cookie) or impulse spending or whatever it may look like.

 

Let’s go THERE!

Filed under  //   Accountability  

PRODUCTIVITY: REDEEMING THE MEETING SPACE

Ever felt like a meeting was a waste of time?

 

Dragged on for too long?

 

Didn’t really achieve much?

 

One corporation that I know of attempted to create a culture to “redeem the meeting space”.

 

The idea was that every invitee would receive an agenda:

 

 *         the day before the meeting was scheduled (PREPARATION)

 

*          with clearly defined items to discuss (PURPOSE)

 

*          that had a specified TIMEFRAME and this was kept

 

When tangents were created during the discussion, these were captured on paper and “parked” for a meeting to be held at another time.  The participants stayed on the tabled course.

 

Communications, including posters in the meeting rooms, displayed these intentions and permission was given to staff at all levels to not attend if the above did not take place.

 

How can your organisation “redeem the meeting space”?

 

What is the outcome or outputs you are aiming for?

 

Got a story of how you apply similar ideas to your boardroom meetings, café business chats or skype calls?

 

Doing it well? Please share with us.

Filed under  //   Meetings   Productivity  

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